I was pretty shocked last week when I saw that Lolita Blog Carnival had returned and I had somehow missed that completely! Thankfully there are still some bloggers who are better at keeping track of these things, so I was able to join this week. Although despite all the best intention, I decided to use a coordinate I had worn last week instead of putting together something completely new. It may be lazy, but that way you get to see an actual worn outfit rather than just a flatlay!
Honestly, the whole reason for my wearing this was that I wanted to cheer myself up by wearing something that wasn't casual. We can't leave our houses, which means no-one to bother or heckle me as I just try to exist, which is a good enough excuse to wear something fancier. This is one of my most OTT dresses, as well as one of the sweetest ones – both of those were reasons that at one point I seriously toyed with selling it. Yes, despite it being a dream dress.
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| Here you can see that they are lavender, although it's not quite so obvious on the full coord shot. |
However, those thoughts are firmly gone and this coordinate really reignited my love for this print. I think I was stuck for ideas on how to wear it differently for a while and this was exactly the kind of different that I needed. It made me feel like a space princess, which I more than happily played up. While I still wait on my grey socks to arrive, I had a moment of genius remembering that lavender and grey often photograph the same. And they clearly do, as evidenced by this coord where the blouse is grey and the OTKs are lavender, which the camera seems oblivious to (and there are no filters on this picture either, just some light editing to even out the light). I also decided to flip the sequins on my Irregular Choice Total Freedom shoes because the only silver shoes I have are (stupidly old) open toe dancing ones, while the grey Irregular Choice heels are a bit too Rococo for this look.
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| This may be the most necklaces I've worn at once. |
This look was an entire vibe for the day, which was mostly boring, spent being annoyed with work stuff. And seriously wanting an 80's electropop fix and feeling a very strong 80's mood. So when Angelic Pretty not only announced that Neon Star Diner series would go on sale the following day, but that it'd have this super cute 80's-does-50's short sleeve windbreaker jacket thing, I felt like I was personally targeted and attacked. That jacket and skirt combo is everything I want, yet my budget really, seriously, genuinely can't handle both – and even if I could bring myself to only get one, I don't think if I could choose. Skirt would probably be the more sensible choice, since I could wear it with other things I have… but that jacket is what I want more!
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| I did my makeup simple, with a glittery gloss and eyeshadow (that I didn't get a good picture of). And this wig for once photographed the grey and caramel mix that it is. |
In short: it was a boring, yet still very emotional Thursday, made all the nicer by wearing something very cute and pretty OTT. Not only this coordinate sparked joy, but it also reminded me of why this dress in particular sparks joy for me and why I want to keep it.
What kind of coordinate sparks joy for you? Is it something new, different, maybe even experimental? Or do you have this one coordinate you love re-wearing and that sparks joy for you?
As always with Lolita Blog Carnival posts, make sure to check out what the other participating bloggers wrote. No doubts there will be some great outfits to admire this week!






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